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Over 40 Lesbian Dating Australia

40 Lesbian is where lesbians over 40 around Australia can meet without the swipe fatigue, from Canberra to the Top End. Set up your free profile, check out women nearby and start chatting when you feel like it. A beach run, a meet cute at the dog park or a long weekend away might be on the cards.

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How Does Online Lesbian Dating Work Over 40 in Australia?

Once, meeting a woman who liked women meant a hopeful glance at the netball courts, a friend's cryptic hint or crossing your fingers at birthday drinks. It worked, eventually, maybe. These days you can line things up from the couch between episodes of your latest binge.

On 40 Lesbian you write a few lines about yourself, add a photo or two and let other members see what you're like. Whether you're in Newcastle, Ballarat or up in Cairns, you can stay local or look right across the country.

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40 Lesbian is for women over 40 who love women, so you're not stuck scrolling past people who think 2005 was a long time ago. It's a friendlier option than the big apps and open to women in every state and territory.

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It all works on a phone, tablet or laptop, no instructions needed. If something goes sideways, the support team is just a message away.

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Lesbian Dating Over 40 in Australia: Your Questions Answered

Is 40 Lesbian free to join?

Yes. Your profile and photos are free, so you can have a good squiz first. When you'd like to start chatting, upgrade to Premium and message the women who take your fancy.

How do I find lesbians over 40 near me in Australia?

Our quick search gives you a preview of women nearby, from Perth to Townsville. You can also browse single lesbians over 40, and once you've joined you can search by state or town.

What should I write in my profile?

Write it like you're telling a new friend about yourself over brekkie. Mention what you love, what you're after and your most controversial food opinion, then add a recent photo.

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Chat on the site before you meet, choose a busy public place and tell a friend where you'll be. Never send money to someone you haven't met. Report anything suspicious to Scamwatch, and in an emergency call 000.

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